Ladies, how many times have you been asked to or begged to let it go? From my anecdotal experience, this is a woman thing but feel free to switch the pronouns! We've been there countless times. Joe and I see something differently. Maybe we have a conflict and we talk about it, and Joe feels the ... VIEW POST
Don’t Tell Me What to Do!
I could be cooking dinner and messing in the kitchen and Joe will survey the situation and offer a suggestion: "You should move this pot to the back to make room for this?" And often instead of saying, wow, that would be great, thank you, I just mutter, "Hey I got this, and I want that pot there, ... VIEW POST
When You Feel Misunderstood
One of the most frustrating parts of my marriage is when Joe doesn’t understand me. Yes, this happens a lot. Joe is the most amazing man ever. I adore him and desire him and love being with him and but when he does not get me, my first instinct is, I’m done, why do I even try to talk to ... VIEW POST
Surviving Trauma Together
One of the biggest obstacles that Joe and I have faced in our marriage was understanding the effects of childhood trauma and abuse on our marriage. Maybe it was for the best that Joe and I didn’t realize in the beginning what a big obstacle it would be. (If you haven’t heard his story, he ... VIEW POST
The Most Important Skill to Master in Marriage
Not trying to click-bait you but even I get lost in the myriad of how to improve our relationships. Marriage is complicated and it does need so many things to grow, many of which I talk about a lot on this blog. Hmmm... You should work on learning to communicate, being kind, showing affection, and ... VIEW POST
When You Don’t Feel Loved
Do you ever feel unloved in your marriage? Unsettled? Un-something? I often let my anxiousness dominate and then I start to feel all antsy, and I start wondering if my husband loves me. Or assuming he doesn't. For me it often starts with me negatively interpreting Joe’s words and actions. By ... VIEW POST
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