Do you like to be asked to let it go? Kinda in the same category as “calm down”, right? How do you preserve peace and connection when one of you wants to let it go and the other doesn’t? Joe and I have unsuccessfully answered that question too many times. Joe’s tired, feeling powerless, and I just feel dismissed and unheard. And around we go.
But God had a better way for us. He has taught us how to better listen to each other, how to be more aware of each’s other’s needs. When we’re frustrated at needing to let it go or not let it go, we don’t have to let it divide us!