By Tara Buchanan

Behind Our Smiles

Joe & Tara Buchanan

When the Holidays are Hard

Does the Christmas season bring up the best memories for you?  I got all the good memories when it comes to Christmas:  the excitement of going into the attic for our artificial tree (seriously, a great memory!!) being a part of countless Christmas musicals, and of course Christmas morning with my ... VIEW POST

How to Show Gratitude

Do you ever feel unappreciated? All that stuff you do, day in and day out, and no one knows the level of effort and work you’re putting in. Does anyone even notice? Oh yeah, if it doesn’t get done then someone might notice!! I know that's how I feel some days.   I can feel that way in my ... VIEW POST

8 Secrets from 50 Years of Marriage

This week my parents, Tim and Lynette, are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary!  Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad! My parents' faithfulness to God and to each other has been a tremendous example to Joe and me as well as to countless others. We are so excited to celebrate this milestone with ... VIEW POST

How My Husband Got to be So Good-Looking

Sometimes I have that moment where I look at Joe and think, Wow, is he not the most handsome guy in the world? I mean look at that face and those eyes!!!   It’s not just that I married a handsome guy :)   I'm attracted to him!  But that attraction does not happen out of nowhere.   In the ... VIEW POST

The 5 S’s to Serving Your Spouse

We’re all busy these days.  Many times we’re busy serving others, serving our families, serving in the community.   Aren't we all serving enough?  It's tempting to put my spouse at the bottom of this list of people to serve.   He can fend for himself, right? But true service doesn’t end in the ... VIEW POST

When My Husband Needs Space (and Why)

Confession:  I hate giving Joe space.   I want to be close to him. You know that's why I dated him, and married him.   Get in his business, in his face.  HI HONEY! I’M HERE!!! I especially thought when we got married that closeness would be a mark a good marriage, right?  We would be soooo close ... VIEW POST

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